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| Dancelittleewok wrote: |
I have a question, but first let me tell you a brief story in order to explain it.
Recently, I met a guy who is a nerd like me except he's into cosplay. Specifically anime cosplay. But he's ashamed to tell his friends, the people he has known for years about what he sometimes likes to do in free time. Also, photos of him in costume could cost him a promotion at work. But mostly he's worried about being thought as weird. I, on other hand, have a Star Wars iPhone case, and three Facebook albums dedicated to my geek interests. Everyone knows I love Star Wars.
Have you encountered geek discrimination? Are you afraid of telling others about your love of Star Wars? |
I've certainly experienced such discrimination, and can understand why he'd be worried. When I was in the geek closet, I didn't tell anyone for fear of the mockery, but when I did, I was overwhelmed by the amount of no **** being given - at least, by those who knew me. Now, with this guy, it may be that it isn't all in his head, and that he really will be stigmatised for his interests - this I have experienced in other pursuits. When I've encountered such a reaction, I quickly learned to not care. It made me happy, and that's what mattered. That may or may not be the best approach, but it's the one I took. _________________ I am a Star Wars fan. That doesn't mean that I hate or love Jar Jar. That doesn't mean I hate or love Lucas, or agree or disagree 100% with him. That doesn't mean I prefer the PT over the OT, or vice versa. That doesn't mean I hate the EU, or even love all of it. These are not prerequisites. Being a man is not a prerequisite. Being a geek is not a prerequisite. The only prerequisite is that I love something about Star Wars. I am a Star Wars fan.
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